Welcome to the unpredictable world of leadership. It does not end when you become a civilian either. The military can get your attention alot quicker. Bottomline you do not have to deal with the attitude and it can be handled in any manner deemed appropriate from corrective training to UCMU. His refusal to sign is absolutely fine. I just don’t think he understands he is setting himself up for failure by not signing forms and having such a bad attitude/tone. We all have things that get under our skin. He is wrong! You and the commander can make any meeting or event mandatory (within reason). For example a hail/fairwell, unit org day, etc. You just cannot make it mandatory to expend funds. As a leader he has a duty and responsibility to show support for the FRG. If appropriate his corrective training could range from: writing an essay, giving a class, or writing a policy letter regarding an appropriate topic. Here are some ASKTOP post you and he may find interesting.
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Jo B. Rusin
Mark’s points are correct and well taken. However, there may be something else going on with this NCO that you need to check into. It is unlikely that he would ever have made SSG, if this is his normal behavior. He may be experiencing marital problems, which would explain not wanting to attend the FRG, or PTSD/stress related issues, or substance abuse. I would recommend getting the chaplain involved and possibly a command referral to mental health. You and your chain of command need to be calm with an unemotional plan of presentation, but you need to talk with this NCO again. Listen to what is bugging him and then take corrective action.
If the NCO talks with you this way, imagine what he is saying to his Soldiers. Based on my experience, this is ticking time bomb. You need to address the problem and get it corrected (or the NCO separated from the Army as a last resort) before it explodes.
Mark Gerecht
Jo, as usual Great Point! The cause is not always obvious. As leaders we have to look for the root cause!
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