First, congratulations on getting married and the future birth of your child!
The possibility of a compassionate reassignment is unlikely as I do not believe this will be viewed as a compassionate reassignment issue. See AR 614-200 for details and definitions. Your issue is somewhat difficult but you do have several options:
- If your spouse is willing to PCS, her assignment manager may be willing to move her to your current location.
- You could remain at your current locations for at least one year and then both ask for an overseas assignment to get a joint assignment together.
- You may also be able to reenlist for station of choice which might be able to put you together.
- Keep in mind that before your spouse has the baby she can request separation from service under pregnancy. If she is unable to develop a family care plan after the baby arrives she can request separation under inability to obtain a family care plan. Both can be voluntary separations with honorable discharges. In both cases she could then leave the service and then move to your location.
