This response is provided based on the information you shared and should not be used as the sole source for making a decision. You should seek guidance from the chain of command, IG, JAG or other certified agencies before making any decisions. How you chose to use this information is totally up to you and is your sole responsibility.
There should be no impact on your spouse. However if you want to be safe consider taking another uniform to work and then showering at the gym prior to returning home. You can also use the showers at the gym to remove any remaining CS from your uniform.
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